Apples To Apples…Or Is It Not That Easy?

April 19th, 2012 by

Comparing products can be very frustrating for consumers. I personally find a lot of frustration when venturing through a grocery store. Last week, my wife asked me to pick up some milk and a dozen eggs on my way home from work. I’ve been buying these products on a regular basis for all of my adult life, so you’d think the task should be quite simple. When approaching the egg section, the choices, as anyone who does their own grocery shopping knows, are borderline overwhelming. There are brown eggs vs. white eggs. There are several sizes of eggs. Hormone-free eggs, cage-free eggs, omega 3 additives in eggs, and that’s just off the top of my head. To complicate things even further, there are several companies selling each of these options. In all, to simply take a guess of how many different types of eggs there are in the average supermarket where I shop, I’d have to guess I have at least 15 (seemingly) completely different egg choices. The pricing on these ranges from the mid 1 dollar per dozen up to almost five dollars a dozen. That’s almost a 400% difference in price, for basically the same thing! As for the milk, it doesn’t get any easier.

So, why is this relevant to a blog post for me? My little grocery store frustration is not very well understood by me, but what I do understand is diamonds. On the topic of diamonds, I find people making the same assumptions all of the time, and I get frustrated from the completely opposite standpoint…As in trying to point out politely but passionately that what they’re comparing are two completely different things. And the answer I often get, which goes something like “but they’re both 1 carat diamond earrings in 14K white gold” is presumably just as misinformed, but as easy of a trap to fall into, as me saying “They’re all just a dozen eggs”.

One story that I tell my sales teams, which seems to surprise some people, is what I often do with customers when they’re making an important jewelry purchase. In particular, the instance that comes to mind, although I have been known to do this on several occasions, took place several years ago at Christmas when I was working in our Portland, OR store. A man that I was working with for quite some time was looking to purchase a pair of diamond earrings for his wife, and he was a longtime Shane Co. customer. This Christmas, he informed me, he was watching every penny he spent very carefully. After showing this gentleman dozens of pairs of earrings, we had settled on the pair that was perfect for him. When he informed me that this was the pair that best suited his needs, I very naturally asked him, “So this is the pair you are going to go with?”, and to my surprise, he said that he needed to look around a bit more, at the mall across the street. I was surprised, but said I completely understand, and wanted to know what he was looking for further, as obviously I did not completely satisfy his needs with what Shane Co. had. He informed me that that was not the case at all, but he heard that a jeweler at the mall (he couldn’t remember if it was Zales, Kay, or Helzberg) was selling the “same” earrings for a much cheaper price. I quickly told him that was impossible and I was going to prove it to him. He was shocked at my conviction, and wanted to know how I already knew that he was incorrect, so I explained our practice of constantly shopping every other jewelry store in town, how we buy our product, and how we price our product. But of course, he didn’t believe me, as a representative from Shane Co., I know I wouldn’t if I were in his shoes! To make a long story short, I asked him to please go to the mall and purchase anything and everything that he thought would beat out what I was showing him, and if he liked theirs better he could keep them, but if not , he could go back across the street and return them. I even told him that I would keep his earrings off to the side, not something we normally do during the Christmas rush. So, we had a deal. Not 60 minutes later, the gentleman came back into our store, with his head and eyes looking at the carpet. I asked him politely if he’d like me to retrieve his earrings so he can compare them to what he saw across the street. He softly informed me that he would just go ahead and buy ours. I said, “didn’t you bring anything to compare them to from the mall?”, and he said he could tell from all he had learned that day that what he saw at the mall, at the same size I was showing him, was quality he was embarrassed to give to his wife, and what he saw at our quality at the same size was significantly more expensive. I said to him something like, “then why are you so upset, I’m glad you are making an informed decision?”, and his only answer was, “I’m upset that I didn’t believe you and just wasted an hour of my Christmas shopping!”.

So, the moral of the story is, when shopping for an item that you view as a commodity, and you’re shopping solely based on price, do yourself a favor and make sure that you’re truly comparing apples to apples, and not being tricked into thinking that everything you’re looking at is the same thing. An informed shopper is an empowered shopper. Now if only there was an educator in the dairy aisle of my grocery store!

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  1. Mike Says:

    Tom,

    This is a dead ringer for my experience in your Scottsdale store last Sunday. You’ve been my jeweler of choice since I started dating my girlfriend. I’ve always been treated well and you make a quality product.

    I went in Sunday to start my search for an engagement ring. I was immediately helped by your knowledgeable staff. There was no pressure, I was offered coffee and water, and we looked at just about every ring in the store. I found a ring and a stone (we must have looked at a dozen stones) and I found something my girlfriend would love. We got to the point of purchase and I must admit that something of that dollar value left me with cold feet. I’m no high roller, but I also wasn’t exactly buying the cheapest ring in the store. I convinced myself that it wasn’t prudent to make a purchase of that size without first doing the due diligence of looking elsewhere. I put down my deposit because it was refundable and went to old town Scottsdale to look around.

    What a joke. I shopped the full range of stores. I shopped everywhere from the place “every kiss begins with” to a place that gives you your ring in a signature blue box. As isolated incidents, most of them would not have been a bad shopping experience, but because they directly followed my experience in your store, they were terrible. I never once saw a Shaneco sales rep’s eyes roll over into cash signs, but I saw that elsewhere over and over. One place asked why I’d want to see the diamond under a loupe. Another said that to start shopping, I should apply for their shopper card to see “how big of an investment I could make” (didn’t ask how I planned to pay, just assumed I needed their credit card.) The worst ring at Shaneco was more impressive than any of the rings in some of the stores I looked in. One designer jeweler showed me their ring, asked if thought my girlfriend would like the cabling design of the band and when I said no, told me that she should because it’s designer. Their warranties were lackluster, the craftsmanship was hit or miss. At one place, the salesman showed me “the nicest ring in the store” three different times (all three were different rings.) An alarming number of stores won’t let you pick the stone and setting separately (or will bill generously.)

    I really wasted my time shopping elsewhere. Later this week your prodigal shopper will return to pay off the layaway and take the ring home.

    Thank you and please extend my thanks to your Scottsdale store.

  2. Chris Says:

    Hi Michael,

    Thanks so much for the kind words. I will absolutely pass them along to both our Scottsdale store as well as Tom himself. I’m really happy to hear that we stood up against the competition, but sorry to hear that you feel that you wasted your time shopping around. The way I like to look at it is that you spent your time wisely, because now you won’t have wonder if you really did the best you could. Now, the next time you need jewelry, you know exactly where to go! Thanks again and we’ll see you soon!

    Best,

    Chris

  3. Peri Says:

    I heard that a real diamond will cut glass, so I would take it and on a piece of glass, just slide it acosrs and see if it cuts. You can also take it to a jeweler and they can test it .

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